http://jewishfriendfinder.com/blog/searcher1971/?pid=f1031 %-(RECENTLY i was told that it is acceptable to accept that people you thought you knew and loved or cared for have a open door when they want to disrupt a status quo, they think that to love someone means that you can act any way you wantthen simply say, I love you but do not trust you. I do not feel that love should be so illregarded and excusable. To love requires trust, and to say I love you but do not trust you does not give love any meaning, this does however give to the people who need the excuse for hurting you the power to keep on hurting you. Love is not blind and it is not crazy either,if you love you must trust, because to love is to give and trust is to earn, you have to earn love from others by and through who you are as a person. And love is not abandonment of common sense and grounds to let your self be hurt. Love is to grow cherish and trust in the best that it has to offer, and not what you have to accept.You do not have to accept lies, betrayal, confusion as though it is a debt, love grows with strength and support, and not festerd with being forced to be used as a rag and then expect unconditional chaous, we should learn to grow away from the antidote of love but no trust, and surroun ourselves with nourshing relationships and growing trust. Lets not be used or become users, lets grow in strength and intergity and trust. Then our hearts can be rewarded well. http://jewishfriendfinder.com/blog/726/post_1475.html?pid=f1031 Sat, 04 Oct 2008 02:04:24 -0800 http://jewishfriendfinder.com/blog/726/post_1475.html?pid=f1031