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Jewish women - 5/27/2009 Can only speak for myself, as I have but this one body to live in...generally speaking, all seems to function...quite well! 0 votes |
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MY PHOTOS -- YOUR PHOTOS AND ALL OTHER - 12/27/2006 As this area requires that a complete sentence be used, here goes.........DUH! 0 votes |
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Jews in Therapy - 9/25/2005 Maybe the women do not realize the are jaded within your eyes. Why not give them some feedback about their self destruction? Maybe help them to open their eyes? Wouldn't that be better than to c 0 votes |
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A Beautiful Mind vs Reality - 8/6/2005 That's exactly what I mean...he wants a 'sex pic'! He does not instead ask, "When and where are you available to meet with me?" 0 votes |
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I don't know what to do... - 7/24/2005 Like thwe song goes....'it's in his kiss...'- Make it a warm peck at first, gradually making it sensuous. How long should you wait? Go with her reactions.... 0 votes |
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from internet to the first date - 5/14/2005 Well, thus far, ikeora is correct. But the suggestion to actually meet scares many away. I continue to sort out the sincere with this approach, anticipating that one day, I will meet my intended 0 votes |
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I wanna now what love is.... - 3/20/2005 For me, love would include forsaking all others. But, not only making this sacrifice alone. My soulmate would unquestionably do this as well. Trust. Trust, is the key for me! If I trust a pers 0 votes |
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Was it all about the money - 1/31/2005 Wow...welcome to reality! I was brought up that I could never return to my parents home, upon leaving...and that where ever I lived, I'd better make darn sure I could afford it....that's right, to 0 votes |
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Is there anyone interested in articles on life in a kibbutz in Israel? - 1/11/2005 Yes, and I'd like to know what interests you most about the different landscape, artwork, architecture you may find there uniquely, intermingled with the difference in cultures that have also contr 0 votes |
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Once a cheater always a cheater? - 1/1/2005 If you already know why he cheated, are able and do whatever it takes to fulfill his needs/desires and vice-versa, then you have nothing to worry about. Remember that ongoing communication is vital 0 votes |
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Moralityand Politics - 12/31/2004 After reviewing your profile, I see you are in Lagos State, Nigeria. I do not have enough information from there. My only experience, is with my coworkers, here in my area. They seem to prefer be 0 votes |
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tell me what u think - 12/12/2004 I'm confused about what is the matter? If you invite someone out, then yes you must pay. If she invites you out, then yes, she must pay. If you want to go 'dutch', then explain that beforehand. 0 votes |
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For women's eyes only: social coma - 11/22/2004 No, you are not a loser. You do have an interest in dating, as you have looked back to see if women are attracted to your prowess, your gallant demeanour, as you walk by. You are not enticed by w 0 votes |
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Anyone got some serious success stories to tell?! - 11/16/2004 No, not yet! But I sure as heck am looking to make one, why else would I be here? Reflecting on the past, well, that's why I'm open to suggestions....but, one day I do hope to place an article in 0 votes |
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Spelling online - 11/14/2004 FYI, I did not notice how frequently I mis-speeled words...I mean erroneously spelled, until this young man took the time to make note of it....because I still don't know how to pull up a dictionar 0 votes |
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I wonder... - 11/14/2004 Thank you, everyone for your advice...as always, you've given me new incentives and realizations! Jennie Z-BiggMamaZ-biggmamaz 0 votes |
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Love after Love - 11/14/2004 Although the votes are not always printed as initially cast, and I have viewed them frequently, all of your comments have been welcomed and appreciated and most of all...helpful to me-Jennie Z, Big 0 votes |
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isn't comitment there at every level of friendship/relationship? - 11/7/2004 Thank you for all of your comments! But, oooomymorgan, I think yours requires some editing! I do appreciate what you were trying to say....just not that way! Fortunating, I do read between the l 0 votes |
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Is it possible for a non jewish person to be a jewish ??? - 11/7/2004 You must go to your local synagogue and discuss this, in more detail, with the clergyman/Rabbi. That is the best way to avoid and disarm any prejudices that may exist. Go in peace. Jennie 0 votes |
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He Keeps Trying to convince me we are compatible - 10/27/2004 Sounds like you need to meet with each of the two gentlemen, before you make your final decision. The distant gentleman will not find milage an obstacle, unless you make it one! But, by meeting e 0 votes |
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Can you trust men you meet on the FF site - 10/26/2004 Yes, you're quite right, it would be an indication that you are interested in more than friendship, should you go-at his expence. Even so, acts of love are consensual between partners. You can al 0 votes |
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how would you catch a man that you know is your soul mate and yet look out of your league - 10/26/2004 That's what's great about love...it may change us for the worse, or the better! Make whatever adjustments you need to make to keep your soulmate proud of you. He will do the same for you, as chan 0 votes |
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How do you know if a guy loves you? - 10/25/2004 You don't know if he will ever have enough in common with you , to love you, unless you let him know verbally. You may ask him to join you for dinner once or twice, then after that, allow him to t 0 votes |
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Aussie in Canada, in September, wants to dance - 10/21/2004 Canada is a large country. Usually, motel/hotel managers are most helpful with the social activities approximate to their locations. Good luck with your endeavors that may lead to continued uncond 0 votes |
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I realised he is cheap man - 10/19/2004 Maybe he thought that he satisfied what you wanted from him. If you want more than a one night stand from him, you'll have to tell him so. Many times, with the addition of tender, promising, mean 0 votes |
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What should I do about him. - 10/19/2004 I agree that friend does not mean lover. I agree that close friends are not lovers. A line is drawn between those two entities. If, he respected you and cherished your affections, he would not r 0 votes |
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Not even a - 4/18/2024 Well, Jon, you seem very distraught with the entire situation and maybe, the ladies are picking up these vibes. Maybe your expectations are too high. Maybe, initially, chit chats would be better 0 votes |
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Can somebody leave it everything by love? - 4/18/2024 Anggie, it appears that you two have found unconditional love! With the proper visas and whatnot, you may prefer that he first become successful with his business, a citizen of your country, estab 0 votes |
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What do you think of this scenario? - 4/18/2024 There may be some physical deficits coming into play here! Not all of a man's numbers grows, over time. What this means is that....as he ages, due to physical changes, his command of the number o 0 votes |
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Why people judge each other base on nationality? - 4/18/2024 Along with the information regarding someones nationality, is additional media regarding cultural expectations. Ideally, we do not mix religion with politics. There are many countries with laws t 0 votes |
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Do you think he is interested in me? - 4/18/2024 He has been very open with you and has honored your requests by emailing and mailing what you have allowed. Perhaps it's your turn to oblige his wishes, by telephoning him, and minimally leave a m 0 votes |
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Help me understand - 4/18/2024 He may have been comfortable with only your company. More than likely, he was too shy to be put under your family's and friends' microscope. He did not feel confident that you would protect him f 0 votes |
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Do long distance relationships work? - 4/18/2024 One of my sons had a long distance relationship via the internet. After a couple of months, he travelled over 500 miles to date the young lady. Soon afterwards, he asked if she could visit him he 0 votes |
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How i can tell wail that i love him??? - 4/18/2024 You must gain control over yourself, #1. He won't believe you if you are crying. He'll think you just mean to say that you need a hug. Looking him in the eyes, is the best way, when you do tell 0 votes |
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What Do I Do Now? - 4/18/2024 I do not understand why, if you broke up with him because you feared the depth of it for him...you also say you decided to do that as he once had a relationship, with someone before you. If he is 0 votes |
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Love sickness: will it be the death of me? - 4/18/2024 Casually and calmly expess your feelings towards him, should the opportunity arise. Just stop and think about how you would feel if someone unexpectedly blurted out things to you. I do not think 0 votes |
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why - 4/18/2024 How rude to insinuate that two people are just alike. Even clones have different personalities. If you cannot separate the differences between the two, then how in the world will you know which i 0 votes |
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What does Take care of yourself means? - 4/18/2024 Only you are able to say for sure, what he meant. Since he is moving, it probably would take several days for him to arrange to get back on line. It's a shame that he can not phone you, until the 0 votes |
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HOW YOUNG IS TOO YOUNG TO GET MARRIED? - 4/18/2024 As you say, how much you love a person, a lot of times depends on experience with coping with others. But you're far too young to get married, without the maturity, of being able to, not only cons 0 votes |
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How to deal with my family? - 4/18/2024 I really think that your parents trust you. It's just that they feel that they let you down, before, because they trusted the other man as well. They evidently did not provide a chaparone for you 0 votes |
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Still in touch with his ex - 4/18/2024 I'd really like to hear what his current wife has to say about this. If I were you, rather than to commit adultry, I would wait until after he is legally divorced before trying to have any more pr 0 votes |
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long distance love affair - 4/18/2024 Yes, I honestly think that a long distance relationship will work. But, it would help if each person loved one another. Better still, if the two were ever physically together, at least once...Dre 0 votes |
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how do you tell a guy you still love him after he's broke nyour heart? - 4/18/2024 Sometimes, it seems, we are allotted a very small amount of time with each other. That is why it is so important to make the most of all the time that we have with anyone. This is good that you e 0 votes |
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This guy confuses me as hell...what is up with him. - 4/18/2024 Sounds like a good old fashioned case of lust. It's only as good as it lasts. That's why it's much better to seek a love, that may not necessisarily be always sex, but will be everlasting...such 0 votes |
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My parents don't want me to marry a black guy - 4/18/2024 The best way is to be open. But, know this beforehand...parents, and someday you may too, like to think that their/your 's offspring may resemble them/you too and will carry on the family genes. 0 votes |
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When should you expect your partner to say, "I Love You" - 4/18/2024 Aint't that the truth? Many of us have been conditioned from our homes, media, Holy Temples that the word Love is key. For the first time, I have found myself in a simular situation. So, knowing 0 votes |
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too social - 4/18/2024 Maybe, there is a cultural problem, here. Maybe, where you come from, an unescorted lady is a free for all...so to speak! But, here, she is unescorted because she is safe from being mistaken as a 0 votes |
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can i go on with my life alone? - 4/18/2024 Yes, you are wrong. He has told you and publicly displayed his repulsion of you. Just as he can not really use "drunkardness" as an excuse, neither may you. Surprisingly, I found myself in the s 0 votes |
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How to get over it ?? - 4/18/2024 I understand. It has taken me over ten years of that confounded realization that I was not the apple of my ex's eye! The reason, I think it has taken so long, is because I kept myself so busy tha 0 votes |
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What do women really think about Sex ? - 4/18/2024 On the one hand, men complain that 'she' won't go the ultimate next step in a relationship. On the other hand, men complain that they want a friend...not to just sex it up all the time! Granted, 0 votes |
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am i an Alian? - 4/18/2024 Keep things simple. Meet him for dinner or anywhere that may include both you and a friend to accompany you, until you can develope trust with your guy. I hope that things work out between you. 0 votes |
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why should he do that - 4/18/2024 This may be a test to see if you actually love your new boyfriend. It also gives you the opportunity to behave as your ex did in the past. Two wrongs don't make a right. Don't slip back to an ol 0 votes |
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why do all girls think all guys are interested in is sex??? - 4/18/2024 Maybe because a guy's priority seems to be how to get her into the sack, and then wait and see if a friendship then developes...Welcome to a woman's delema...how to keep the two needs balanced...se 0 votes |
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Life sucks and than you die! - 4/18/2024 True, it is best to go into a RELATIONSHIP without any baggage, so to speak. But everyone's experiences can not be cast aside as easily. They look, every now and then within that 'baggage', so as 0 votes |
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Very confused - 4/18/2024 You already know what to do. While, you are looking to pursue someone else who also wants a hands on unconditional love, maybe your fantasy love will make an appearance. Again, you will know what 0 votes |
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are there realy any nice guys left - 4/18/2024 With all that you have been through...you may not have given yourself time to be able to deal with the world...let alone a loving relationship. These gents are probably not trying to make you angr 0 votes |
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I need advice on MEN!!! - 4/18/2024 It seems that when you told him that you loved him...he would have given some kind of answer...whether it be that he loves you also and/or he wishes to be a friend, only. If he did not answer at a 0 votes |
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Customer cum Friend - 4/18/2024 I think that only very close friends, would be abiding the rules of ettiquette, if they went dutch, per say, for a party. Your new aquaintences may, indeed find you to be a rude woman for inviting 0 votes |
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IF I SAY....... - 4/18/2024 Oh, how sad! Of course he loves you! He would not have allowed you to have the baby, nor would he have stayed around to help with the baby's upbringing. Maybe you can explain to him, that just a 0 votes |
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How make a relationship work across cultural and language borders - 4/18/2024 Continue to seek information, from books, friends and schools, and let her know that is what you are doing. This will make each of you less anxious to know that every effort is being made to try t 0 votes |
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should you have sex with a guy you just meat? - 4/18/2024 Dump him and any other clown like him...never give what you cannot afford to lose...self respect! Sex is not meant to be used as a toy or candy to be taken or given away, at a whim. It serves bes 0 votes |
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why am i still single after all this time - 4/18/2024 Have you tried, giving a meaningful kiss, after a dinner date? It may be surprising, after asking, if she minds if you kiss her begorehand, that she gives you a meaningfukiss in return! That is wh 0 votes |
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commitment issues - 4/18/2024 I don't understand why you feel that she is having a problem with commitment. You must understand that, right now, she is undoubtedly committed to her . Have you thought to assist her with childr 0 votes |
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Real or not - 4/18/2024 You may have come across a player! If he really is interested in you, he will, hopefully, gradually be able to spend more time with you. That is, if you have the time to wait....There are many pe 0 votes |
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is this really love? - 4/18/2024 You must repect his wishes, in-so-far, that he does not want to betray his wife. And he has undoubtedly made this perfectly clear to you. It would be very wrong of you to proceed with your plan t 0 votes |
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Single parents and dating - 4/18/2024 I have two sisters that happily remarried. They merged their families with their soulmates' families. They were all able to overcome the stigmas society places on divorcees, with . There are gen 0 votes |
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What does she mean when she says she was lineant before? - 4/18/2024 I would take this to mean that she is not interested in receiving 'rude remarks', as you put it. She may be, as will you, someday, be seeking a relationship that thrives on kind words and thoughts 0 votes |
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Why ? - 4/18/2024 They may themselves be hurting to such a degree, that they must cut off a relationship, so to speak, for fear of causing hurt to others. They are not capable of actually seeing how others may feel 0 votes |
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Which is more important,outside or inside? - 4/18/2024 What's important to some people, is not to others. Some are very style conscious, whereas, others, will go out of their way to appear sloppy. But, overall, I think that your view is beautiful...t 0 votes |
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How can a woman tell if a woman she meets in public is "interested" or just "friendly?" - 4/18/2024 I don't know, unless you ask her...or point out an attractive man...then a woman...and from her reactions, you'll at least have a clue. Or, a direct question....I don't know why she would be offen 0 votes |
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some girls lie they are not real nomatter how innocent they seem to be - 4/18/2024 How disappointing and disheartening...apparently, some people, are not, as I...searching for a truthful, loving and sincere unconditional love. BiggMamaZ 0 votes |
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How do I go about it? - 4/18/2024 Unconditional love is timeless and reaches around the entire world, when necessary! Keep in touch with your guy! BiggMamaZ 0 votes |
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sumthing abt guyz - 4/18/2024 Now, in the millineum, it is acceptable in many places for the female gender to be assertive...not to be confused with aggresive... She is now able to politely enter into a conversation, even wit 0 votes |
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m i really grown stupid??? - 4/18/2024 This is sad! Maybe, after her anger dies down, she will be able to hear you...and will be able to listen to what you are saying! You sound as though you are now a sincere, loving man. I hope tha 0 votes |
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WHICH IS WHICH? - 4/18/2024 You seem so angry! We tend to all have the misconception that parents are all knowing, all controlling, are always just-especially with their own ! Are you aware that we are not able to comprehen 0 votes |
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Why do guys act this way? - 4/18/2024 I thought all people act this way. When things start moving too fast, sometimes a person will not only step back...but also out of the picture, so to speak. Just until confidence and security are 0 votes |
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Should I give her advice - 4/18/2024 How much is 'guy talk', and how much is 'for real'? If he's sharing this info with you and other male friends, then I would think that a lot is just, to keep the day interesting. I would say that 0 votes |
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What to do?!?!?! - 4/18/2024 Since you've already accepted that neither of you wish to commit fully, and continue with your freedom...then you must do really just that. Accept what you've already agreed to. If, you've change 0 votes |
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Question what you don't know? - 4/18/2024 Communication is twofold. When you realize that you are not being understood, then, it's up to you to clarify what you are meaning to say. This may be acheived by rephrasing, and/or using differe 0 votes |
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its about trust - 4/18/2024 Since you are the newcomer, maybe you need to make the first move to befriend her ex. This will make you all more comfortable when meeting, and your girlfriend may see that you are attempting to b 0 votes |
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Can love Conquer illness? - 4/18/2024 Maybe, all you talk about is your illness and it's financial problems to you. It could be, that you sound as though you're looking for charity-and they just can't afford it. So, rather than tell 0 votes |
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beauty is in the eye of the beholder. - 4/18/2024 With pictures, it is your personality, that is reflected: with how you carry yourself, eye contact, facial expression. Your attire is a reflection of how you perceive yourself...in the eyes of tha 0 votes |
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when is it my turn? - 4/18/2024 You are evidently a trustworthy fellow. I hope to someday meet a gentleman as kind as yourself. After, having explained your feelings, and you find that your friend is not interested, you are rig 0 votes |
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first date my qustion has to parts - 4/18/2024 Always be yourself. That way you know that you are putting your best foot forward, so to speak. Your date may be more nervous than you! Go someplace close to where you live. I have heard storie 0 votes |
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to the boyz and their lil friend!!! - 4/18/2024 This topic does not belong here. Just stop, and think! Respect is the key word! Respectfully, wash youself! BiggMamaZ 0 votes |
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Should I keep talking - 4/18/2024 It's more than likely best that you respect his wishes, although you feel that he's making a drastic mistake. If, and when he realizes his error...he will let you know as he still has your e-mail 0 votes |
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please help me - 4/18/2024 Regardless of where he is, if you/he plan to be together for the rest of your life, then you need to find out where at. If this is a lifetime computer chatting agreement, then his term in jail doe 0 votes |
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What a dilema!!! - 4/18/2024 Well, why haven't you corrected her as to her being wrong about someone at your workplace? That would have been your opportunity to say that this other person is from a chat website. I suspect th 0 votes |
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I LIKE COUNTING EVERY THING I SEE AS COUNTABLE, I WONDER WHAT IS WRONG WITH ME ? - 4/18/2024 You're forgetting that you, yourself count- and are an integral part of humanity! You must rest by sleeping, at times. You will then see and feel that you are one...that others may then count on. 0 votes |
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Finding Mr.Wrong - 4/18/2024 If you don't trust the pics, then perhaps you should make arrangements to meet with the person, take a picture then. And, you're right...sometimes pictures don't do us any justice. With this site, 0 votes |
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A priest as a friend?? - 4/18/2024 No, you don't forget your friends. Maybe he has more to occupy his mind with a growing number of churchmembers? And maybe you will have a mutual friend with the clergy at your new location. It's 0 votes |
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Is there anything else l left out to convince him? - 4/18/2024 Probably, the internet affairs are fantasies that only you share with him, intimately! The others wish they could be as close to him as you are. You have nothing to prove...it's you he's intimate 0 votes |
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Can you, should you be faithful to someone who has not been faithful to you? - 4/18/2024 Two wrongs, don't make a right. You need to forgive your husband as this will prove that you indeed have worked it out. Hopefully, he will be monogamous, as, this, I believe is the intention for 0 votes |
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Why am i scared of love? - 4/18/2024 Lonliness may surface with a room full of people. I believe that you have come to the right place/site, not only to deter those feelings...but also to increase your chances of finding and living w 0 votes |
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Am I just paranoid? - 4/18/2024 You seem to have supporting evidence for your accusations. If it is indeed, a repeated fact...then you must follow through with whatever you said you'd do, if he cheated again. But be not only su 0 votes |
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Friends and Non-relationship-How to keep them AWAY? - 4/18/2024 Why do you feed to them, as fuel, what you feel for these gentlemen, before you have even made your intentions made to them? Are you using these ladies to put the suggestion that those men pay mor 0 votes |
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should a girl ask a guy out? - 4/18/2024 I tried that once....didn't work out. What now amazes me is how a guy continues to be persistant, even though he's been turned down. I, now have severe reservations about ever asking another pers 0 votes |
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Love hurts. - 4/18/2024 The truth, and nothing but the truth, is love. A lie, whether it be a: little, white, harmless, forgiving, unintended, under these/those circumstances type lie, is a lie. You admitted you lied. 0 votes |
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start a real freinds ship - 4/18/2024 Tell these thoughts to your friend, first! They may not really be interested in upgrading their relationship to anything more serious than a chat. With patience, and communication, a mutual love 0 votes |
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Help Me, Am I Being To Forward? - 4/18/2024 Yes, you're being too forward. Women like to get into men's heads, before their pants. And she likes to think that you forbid all others from this sanctuary. A woman likes to think...and really 0 votes |
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Friend, lover, or forget it? - 4/18/2024 It may be a good idea to determine if he were sober, when he said that, while you were out with friends. If so, you must acknowledge to him, his feelings, as you understood him to say. It may be 0 votes |
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should i ask her out? - 4/18/2024 All you can do is to ask her if she would be upset because you think you are in love with her. She may rather to hook you up with another friend, whom, she feels that you may actually, not only, f 0 votes |
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which one is deserving? - 4/18/2024 Unconditional love means that each soulmate does the best he/she can to make each other happy. So, you must decide who will make you happiest, the least stressed, and will be the most forgiving of 0 votes |
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Boyfriend's best friend - 4/18/2024 So, instead of grieving for only one delema, the loss of your love, you wish to double his trouble? I think this is not kosher and you are not compassionate to anyone's feelings! He needs his bes 0 votes |
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Should I remain his friend or walk away??? - 4/18/2024 For many people, it is one or the other. Best thing for you to do is to chalk it up as Experience and proceed to look elsewhere for a soulmate. In the future, if he has a lenient, friendly woman, 0 votes |
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a man - 4/18/2024 Apparently, your words are feeding his ego into believing that life is all about him. Let him know that you wish to be only friends, for now, and that a little reciprosity is shared by friends as 0 votes |
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Gossipers - 4/18/2024 No, you don't hate them. The discomfort you are feeling is 'embarressment'. No one is jealous of you. You need to get over youself. And be more discrete with your outside relationships, and/or 0 votes |
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how to tell a close friend that you are not in love - 4/18/2024 Tell it as it is to her. Explain that you love her differently than she may expect. And enclude that none of us can predict the future and you hope to be a part of hers...in-so-far, that after al 0 votes |
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How do you say no and keep friends? - 4/18/2024 You must tell them of your newfound love and ask that they respect him, as they would he to them. But do not isolate yourself from everyone as this opens the door to abuse. It must be nice to hav 0 votes |
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what is keeping us from being together - 4/18/2024 What have you done to remedy this situation? If, you're sitting and waiting for this person to be delivered to your doorstep...then that is why. If, it's a monetary issue...perhaps if you two put 0 votes |
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How can you tell you really love - 4/18/2024 If all you think about is her...then, your in love! If you also want to care for her...until death do you part...then you love her. If you think she'd make a great mother...then marry her before 0 votes |
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Is Chivalry Dead - 4/18/2024 Yes, but here in the New Millineum, if you wait for someone to contact you here, it'll be by the next millinium that he does. Just a searching woman's viewpointe. BiggMamaZ 0 votes |
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Why can't guys keep it real? - 4/18/2024 It would be a miracle for anyone to keep all their ducks in a row, during a grade 6.4 earthquake. Maybe your expectations are not realistic for anyone. Unexpected circumtances and disappointments 0 votes |
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what did I say or do so wrong? - 4/18/2024 No, your wife is right. And, you haven't exhausted the list for penpals yet! BiggmamaZ 0 votes |
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how can someone be sure that he or she is in love - 4/18/2024 If your every waken moment and every task you perform is with the thought of someone special, if you can't get him out of your head-ever-then you're in love. I think that the Oregan Writer is on t 0 votes |
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why does he think it is ok? - 4/18/2024 He may be sharing his fantasies with his friends. Just as you may do with yours. He has friends of the female gender. And you may have friends of the opposite sex gender, as well. Perhaps you n 0 votes |
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Did I Make The Right Decision? - 4/18/2024 This is a definate "tuff love" situation! Are you now looking for a "white" man to adopt your ...so others may think you did too? NO! This will confuse this , even more! Leaving him feeling, un 0 votes |
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How do I know if my girlfriend is really comfortable with me? - 4/18/2024 Because you can't read minds, you must use another option. Your mouth. You must be less mysterious by asking that which you wish to know. Admittedly, body language is also a component of, but no 0 votes |
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swapping kisses - 4/18/2024 I have never spit into someone elses mouth...nor have had that to happen , when open mouthed kissing. It's a shame you haven't found anyone to trust not to do that, yet. Maybe it helps to ask, be 0 votes |
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Spelling online - 4/18/2024 I believe that communication is the most important issue at this site/network. Irregardless of how we blurt it out. How we work things out is via talking and allowing others to share what our del 0 votes |
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What a girl should do when her b\f is busy all the time? - 4/18/2024 Stop and think. Really, stop and think. Is a friend's love what you are seeking? If so, rest assured that you have found it with him. He doesn't have the heart to tell you that he has other pri 0 votes |
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Why do people play mind games? - 4/18/2024 I do not like to think that anyone is playing games...i've found that the ones that are actually paying members, play less. I have also found that the visitors...are many times fun to play with. 0 votes |
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Should you tell your best friend that you love him/her and want a relationship? - 4/18/2024 Of course you should tell him. And continue to be there for him, although he may not have such strong feelings for you yet. Unconditional love, includes trust. You are well on your way to acheiv 0 votes |
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why does it hurts when the one you love was already been taken by somebody? - 4/18/2024 This mystery has repeatedly occurred with many. All we can do is hope that time will heal all wounds. While your soul is mending, distract your hurt by continueing to search for unconditional lov 0 votes |
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Whether the liked prostitutes man is able to monogamy? - 4/18/2024 Apparently he feels that he has found unconditional love with you. This is why he has asked for your hand in marriage. As this unconditional love continues to grow...so will your skill in knowing 0 votes |
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Am I asking to much? - 4/18/2024 If he's playing too much, then you must ssit him down for a 'time out', explain your rules and expectations. If he can not abide by them...then he must let you know so that you may seek and find a 0 votes |
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Relationships with other likes. - 4/18/2024 Accept that he has a friend of the female gender. Learn to be her friend as well. That way you'll both be welcomed to stay with her when you both visit her state. BiggMamaZ 0 votes |
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How can I fall in love to a person who!s stupid? - 4/18/2024 Don't make yourself available to him. Or, simply tell him that he is not someone whom you would ever consider to be your soulmate. Or, that you are aware that he has serious feelings for you and 0 votes |
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So what is wrong with large women? - 4/18/2024 Everyone is entitled to his/her own opinion and each of us know what we prefer to live with. Some standards of living are less generous than yours. I, too, am heavy. But, even so, there is a limi 0 votes |
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Why discriminate - 4/18/2024 What an eyeopener, for those of us from the nineties...the old. This is a new aspect of unconditional love that one day, I hope to enjoy...as do my competitors, I am certain that your enlightenmen 0 votes |
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To Trust or Not? - 4/18/2024 Communication is a tool used to help make intelligent decisions. Once he trusts you, then he'll open up more, becoming less evasive. Not everyone is a tell all upon initial conversations and/or m 0 votes |
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At what point in dating do most women typically get sexual? - 4/18/2024 You're right. There is a right time, and place for everything. Many people are upset when their favorite television show has been interupted by, say, an emergency news broadcast. And that's how I 0 votes |
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what do u do when u meet ur rival - 4/18/2024 Accept things as they are for the time being. At some point he may realize that you truely care for him. Continue to be his friend. Allow him to grow. Sometimes, we can't see the trees for the f 0 votes |
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he loves me he just dont know it yet - 4/18/2024 You were rude and disrspectful and out of line! His girlfriends may be friends of the female gender. You seem the type to jump to conclusions without getting all your facts together. As far as n 0 votes |
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Ladys REPLY - 4/18/2024 Certainly you must agree that there's a right time and a right place for each and every thing. This applies to attire, as well. Don yourself appropriately! Be buried in your most comfortable clo 0 votes |
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Love or loneliness??? - 4/18/2024 Unconditional love is ageless. Compatability is more the issue here. As that does not seem to be the problem, go ahead...live! He's inviting you to join him into a marriage. Seems like you're t 0 votes |
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Why do women go on looks alone and whether the guy has any money ! - 4/18/2024 They may be thinking of the cosequences should they be impregnated by you. Can you support a family, when she is no longer able to work and/or must stay home when the need her? Think in broader 0 votes |
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Do I follow my heart or let it go?? - 4/18/2024 Give up on him. He was being merciful. He was there at a desperate time of need for you. Be thankful and trust that your instincts are more on target, than when you were under a lot of pressu 0 votes |
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i need guy advice - 4/18/2024 "Tell it like it is!" Before your soulmate mistakes lust for love, with another. Secrets are the cospondants of lies. Nobody gets far with either. Time is another factor, the older you become. 0 votes |
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Here's a good one..... Any advice appreciated - 4/18/2024 Disclose it from the start. There can be no disappointment that way. She'll be thrilled to one day learn that you are open, as well. Who would have ever expected that? HC, when you find your so 0 votes |
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How can you love someone you've never even been with this much? - 4/18/2024 Like with the song 'Who Knows-Only Time' may be the answer. But then again, three years is an awfully long time to be miserable. You're not alone, though. You have others that you've begun to ta 0 votes |
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Are most men intimidated by intelligent women? - 4/18/2024 Maybe, a man loves to feel needed, and helpful, in respect, to bring up his love's standard of living. Maybe a man want's to share his accomplishments with someone that will always appreciate them 0 votes |
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When should I tell her I've fallen for her??? - 4/18/2024 I think if she tells you that she relates romantic songs to you, that's a start. It's time to begin some kind of move, or she'll think you're not the least bit interested with whatever she's tryin 0 votes |
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Monogamous women: Hot or not? - 4/18/2024 Probable, maybe...Acceptable....NO! VD is rapidly making believers out of others. Condoms, breaking....transmitting/receiving also, HIVIII(AIDS)or Herpes Simplex...Is communal sex worth dying for 0 votes |
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Get the respect back? - 4/18/2024 I have found receprocation of respect from everyone I have encountered. If you speak first, then that sets the tone. If you, intrude, interupt, interfere, butt in, and/or 'dis' into others' conve 0 votes |
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is she playing hard to get? - 4/18/2024 When I'm on the job, as a nurse, my God guided/given touch is of a medical nature only. This is different than the touch I may share with my future soulmate. Perhaps, dr_, you may not have turned 0 votes |
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who is a true friend? - 4/18/2024 Each is using you. Unless, of course you made this commitment initially. If you find that you are not able to continue, then I would suggest that you be as open and frank as you were with the ini 0 votes |
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how could i find a friend? - 4/18/2024 by returning their emails, they will be able to determine that they can trust you. And at some point, you may like to ask how they feel about you. They may even share this with you before you ask 0 votes |
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I did not understant what you mean. - 4/18/2024 It seems that you're caught in the middle. Your love for your Mother will never go away. That's why we have a naval. It is God's reminder to us that love is ever lasting, with nurturing-in her c 0 votes |
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Ever run into this???? - 4/18/2024 Although I'm divorced, I don't have the least bit of sorrow that my friends didn't follow my lead. I am not jealous that they continue to share unconditional love, lasting decades-thus far. Yes, 0 votes |
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my opinion vs your opinion - 4/18/2024 A question is asked from the inner within us, it is ageless, naive, easily confused and opened by an unidentifiable source to it. It needs an adult to answer it with TLC. This is the only way a 0 votes |
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can you do? - 4/18/2024 Toke, a peacepipe...maybe an illegal substance was used in that also. If this be the case, then you like giving money to toke! But, once the smoke clears, you'll be left looking at yourself, agai 0 votes |
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Uninterested ! - 4/18/2024 As I grow, it has come to my attention that many men feel that "life is like a box of chocolates". And probably, due to having to upkeep their egos, must try as many pieces as they're allowed to. 0 votes |
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can you do? - 4/18/2024 this is too much for a man to answer? A woman's view may have to suffice. I have encountered many liars. Why, because I put them in that position. Kind of like an ultimatum, like thing...the tr 0 votes |
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can you do? - 4/18/2024 learn from the behaviors of everyone they encounter-whether their parents are divorced or not. And from our encounters with all others. As far as a being happy, well this is another mystery of l 0 votes |
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Your spouse becomes disabled - 4/18/2024 I refuse to believe that you, perhaps of hebrew decent lack sensitivity for that reason. Try putting the shoe on the other foot! 0 votes |
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can you do? - 4/18/2024 Sometimes people are put into unforseen circumstances. These scrupples will help to maintain some form of sanity. Pay? That's the least of the worries. We can work even after age 65. Biggmamaz 0 votes |
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can you do? - 4/18/2024 Relationships are what makes the world go around. If these scrupples are followed, you're closer to upholding The Ten Commandments. Biggmamaz 0 votes |
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can you do? - 4/18/2024 There is no right or wrong way to do things. It's a matter of what the consequences for our actions are. Following these ways will likely bring more positive results. Far fewer persons may be ha 0 votes |
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can you do? - 4/18/2024 Yes, problems need to be solved before entering into another relationship. The "snowball effect" will not stop here. A new relationship has enough pitfalls, without adding a past, unresolved, cri 0 votes |
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can you do? - 4/18/2024 Yes, money is disposable, people are not! Communication costs nothing. Be honest with others....and youself. BiggMamaZ 0 votes |
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can you do? - 4/18/2024 If following these beliefs brings more harmony to more persons involved, then so be it. 0 votes |
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Why do so many men lie about being married? - 4/18/2024 I'm wondering if that will occur with my exhusband who seems to be happily married to his jezibel. Although I feel as strongly as you against dating married men, I also believe in miracles. Hopef 0 votes |
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love that quickly fades away - 4/18/2024 Love is all accepting. All accepting of truth inclusive of any flaws within someones temperament, social upbringing, and ettiquette. Politeness is not love. Yes, we hope that the one we care mos 0 votes |
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Can Money buy Happiness - 4/18/2024 Money can not buy happiness. Happiness is achieved through others. Perhaps by telling a joke, or finding humor in a difficult situation-such as laughing at yourself when you put your foot in your 0 votes |
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Why are there so many games played? - 4/18/2024 Well, I am a non-jew looking for someone of Hebrew decent. From the time I was a , I sang "Give me that old time religion..." What sticks out most is "...it was good enough for Hebrew ...and good 0 votes |
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my questions how do you not feel so lonely? - 4/18/2024 Have you thought about a job or being a volunteer at a hospital or nursing home? Honestly, that will definately take your mind off yourself and many woes. You will see how others deal with their 0 votes |
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can you do? - 4/18/2024 It's refreshing to see someone with scrupples. These will help to survive many lonely moments. Jennie 0 votes |
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Can Money buy - 4/18/2024 If not=person, then I must wholeheartedly disagree! Currency, money can not overpower all persons. I agree that many persons empowered with money are not always good fedutiaries. Sometimes money 0 votes |
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