My Ideal Person
You are very bright, adventurous, at least attractive to look at, (beautiful is acceptable). Female bodies fascinate me, femininity is amazing to me. You love to dance, stay physically active. Experiment with everything - food, activity, ethnic stuff. Willing to take risks in the relationship, like experimenting with a unique form of self expression - what to reveal, how to look, how to confront me abut something you really don’t like. Not afraid of conflict and egocentric enough not to compromise what’s important to you while willing to reexamine those same things.
You’ve probably been married, had kids (who are preferably on their own). You’re on good terms with your ex or have at least gotten over the pain of the divorce and or death. You value being a parent, but that’s no longer your most important identity. You’re accomplished in some way - business, a talent of some sort, etc. You want to learn and/or improve something - personal growth, dancing, comedy. You’re a participant, not just a spectator. And you may have some attributes that make some of the above irrelevant.

…and most important, you think I’m really funny.