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44, GWJM, full of surprises, kind, sort of kooky (but yes, sane), definitely kinky (yea, I'm a good bad boy if you will.) Presently single. Previous relationship of 14 years ended 6 months ago. Now that the pain is abating I promised my sister (and she's right about this one...) that the next man in my life be Jewish, and one who understands life and things-in-the-world in this way. British born, mixed family (Italian Jews on mom's side, Scottish Prot. on father's), raised totally secular. I am both British and Israeli (alyah), carry both passports, but have spent most of my life here in the States. I am pro-Israel (and without apology), am into old Volvo's, have a huge tattoo, and like mid-century modern (Finnish, Danish). I'm handsome, sensitive, and husky built with a bit of a belly (which means I can pinch, OK...two inches!). I am a great kisser (intimacy and connection are what turn me on), and I've a great touch. I'm 5'10" tall; weight 190 LBS, size 36W. I'm also generous, have a huge heart, and am dependable. Also, I like burgers, beer, good coffee, leather, whisky and big cigars. A few things I'm not...well, I'm not co-dependant. I'm not lazy. I'm not thin (nor am I fat). I'm not into SF winters (give me the snow). I'm not religious (but the spiritual side of my religion interests me and I'm feeling a need to connect more to that). I'm not into forced-type of hypermasculinity. I'm not vanilla. I'm not a cigarette smoker. I'm not a good speller and I still count using my fingers (and still, I'm addressed as doctor!!). There you have it in a nutshell. If youre interested in finding out more (and boy is there) and want a first date, then please, drop me a line and I'll get back to you!
My Ideal Person
I'm looking for a small/husky/medium sized Jewish bear or cub type man between the ages of 39 and 49 (or there abouts), weight 160 to 220, 230 or so, who ideally (these are not musts criterion) has some fur and a bit of a belly (uummm!), is versatile, lthr, kink, interesting, authentic, sensual, kind, non-confrontational, honest, fun, can blend being nasty in bed with fun and feeling, does the right thing, has the smarts but isn't a yakky know-it-all, has some of the same predilections as me, is present and connected, communicates well and handles tough matters with sensitivity and tact. I want to meet a man who is not self-centered, is after the same things as me in life, isn't overly religious but may participate in a few religious or Jewish activities during the year like, Kol Nidre, Israel Independence day, Yom ha Shoah remembrance, queer seders. Also, I'd like a man who'll enjoy a beer and cigar with me when relaxing or are just hanging out. Please have personality (cuz I just can't take another dull man) without being overbearing or self-righteous. A good conversationalist would be great!! Also, I'm not interested in guys who are too right or overly left. Worse yet are the PC types...stay away!!! Also, if you are not pro-Israel your being Jewish simply won't be enough for me. You must be a supporter of Israel because honestly, if youre not, we won't get along. I wish you the best while you search for your besherit.
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