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I am a caring, strict, Master and run my own business. Intelligent. confident, assertive, good listener, fun, energetic, slim toned body, fit, discreet, confidential. I am looking a submissive woman who wants to be a slave and who wants to meet on a regular basis for BDSM sessions where she will be challenged steadily and safely to explore & expand her BDSM boundaries and interests. Im a normal everyday guy, a gentleman who is intelligent, respectful and fun to be around. Up until now I have mostly had vanilla tastes but I few years ago I was introduced to this lifestyle by an ex-girlfriend and I enjoyed the experience. So much so I have been thinking about it ever since. It is not ever going to be something that I will want to be involved in as a lifestyle 24/7 however I do want to be involved just for the fun factor. My fun and
yours!
I will focus on building a trusting relationship where we negotiate & agree the boundaries for play. Respect goes two ways, just as you must respect me as your Master I must respect you before I can accept you as my submissive or slave.
- We'll negotiate and agree to pre-defined boundaries.
- First you will give me your mind, then you will give me your body. It is not the other way around. Your mind must be willing before I can accept your body. When you have submitted fully to my control I will have your mind and body to use as I wish with respect given to your predefined limits and boundaries.
- There will be no need for a safe word. It is quite simple if you say stop, for whatever reason, I stop.
- It will NOT be a 24/7 lifestyle. I run a business and that has to be a priority. I also won't expect you to be there at my beck and call just because I am available. I wont interfere with your work, or your home life which should be important to you.
- That said when we spend time together I will control you.
- I am patient and with your cooperation I will with time learn enough about you that will break down your protective barriers and once I have established that I will know exactly how to turn you into the perfect slave
- I set high standards & you will be punished when you fail to meet them. Bondage and/or spanking may or may not be involved in that punishment.
- Although strict I am not cruel. I will not set unreasonable ridiculous goals for you to achieve. I will also not be a master imposing my will and ideas over you without respect for you. Your development as a slave and enjoyment from the process will be my goal and it is with that in mind that I will set any rules, rituals or goals. Your education in the role that you have set for yourself will be my aim.
- Whenever you achieve your goals or obey the rituals you will be rewarded.
- You'll enjoy being controlled by me. You will enjoy being my slave and serving me well.
- Sometimes you'll be wearing stockings & high heels, sometimes I will have other things in mind.
- Rules, rituals & obedience will become part of your daily life.
- My power as your Master only goes as far as you have predestined in the talks that we have together.
- Being under my control you can relax & I'll take over.
To be considered for training, you need to write a detailed email on why I should select you.
My Ideal Person
My ideal person would have be someone that I respect and admire. I am attracted to women who are strong mentally and know their own mind. Her decision to submit will be her choice and not mine. She will already have decided that she wants this role for herself, the only thing that is I have to convince her of is that she should submit to me and not to another. She may be used to having control and responsibility in her home life or her business life and wishes to give up that responsibility in her leisure life or perhaps her strengths lie elsewhere but she will be a naturally strong person that I can respect. Im not one for the wee weak timid woman with no voice who I can impose my will on any way I like. There is no challenge in such a situation but worse still there is no respect either.
I have no concern regarding her level of experience in this role. She may be someone new to the lifestyle or someone who is looking to gain new experiences and adventures with someone new. Nor does age matter, she could be 18 or 45 as long as she is mature enough mentally to be aware that this is what she wants. With such a woman I can see myself safely exploring and steadily challenging her BDSM limits. By introducing her to new experiences I will expand her submissive side and educate her in the ways of slavehood.
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