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annathewriter 74F
18 posts
3/17/2008 2:11 am

Last Read:
6/21/2008 1:48 pm

What about those of us in the UK! Programmers - please think of us!


I am constantly having trouble with sites which want me to choose a US state for my location. This is a real nuisance. I'm currently typing this in the UK. I've also lived in the Far East. And a relative of mine is working in Europe for a few months. He might want to order from there. I might want to send him a birthday present.

For example, you are allowed to give your country when registering on a book ordering site.
They give you postage rates for your overseas destination. Then when you fill in the recipients address, if different, you are asked to choose a US state and if you don't, the whole system crashes and you can't just retype that page, you have to start all over again with the book title, author, number, postage selected - a real waste of time.

The internet is worldwide and I'm in London, in the UK. It would be helpful to have 'other' under location. I put Maryland because that's where I used to live and in case the system won't let me comment unless I chose a US state and city.

Dating sites often insist that I chose a US state in searches. They allow me to register as being in the UK. Yet I can't search for anybody in the UK. Ridiculous.

Because up come 15 pages of people around the world. I have to read three pages of people before finding one in the UK.

I might end up being listed as living in the USA, although elsewhere in their system the questionnaire allows you to choose from a long list of countries anywhere in the world.

Often the comment and contact systems won't let you tell them about this problem. You can only ask or comment or report if you have on of their chosen list of subjects such as another member being abusive.

Occasionally I type in a comment in a space for other on another subject entirely

If you are a reader, please comment on this whenever you find a system which makes you choose USA. The sites take your money and want your business and more readers or participants.

I don't know whether the programmers don't have the time or are juniors in their first job or simply haven't noticed that they have provision for overseas readers on one page but not another.

If you do page setups, perhaps you can explain to me why this happens.

I might be happy to have a pen-pal on the opposite side of the world. I might be happy to meet somebody travelling to my current location.

However, I want a dinner date or a steady boyfriend. What's more, if I contact people in other countries, a high proportion of them will write back and say I sound delightful but even if I would be willing to locate, they want a local relationship.

They are looking for a date this weekend. Not somebody who will be writing for six months. Besides, by that time one of us may have found somebody else.

If you or the other members are looking for a local relationship, being matched with somebody in the same country in your first search is enormously helpful.

annathewriter 74F
12 posts
4/4/2008 10:38 am

Moonstruck.
Yes.
I see you are in Belgium. I'm sure you'd like people within driving distance of your area.
I'd like people in London.
We agree on that.



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